I've had it with people who say that the way to a happy relationship is to eliminate the conflict. I've had it with TV ads for certain online dating services that show a deliriously happy couple scientifically matched to make sure they are so-o-o compatible.

Here's the true chemistry of a relationship. One partner is oil. The other partner is water. You can put them together but they will never completely mix. Conflict is normal. Conflict is sometimes necessary. Conflict is an opportunity to strengthen your bond.

Conflict is sometimes unavoidable but dumb fights are optional.  Don't get stuck in repetitive, blaming, defensive arguements that may rob you many years of closeness and joy.

My name is Rhonda Audia and I am also know as the "Guru For Two."  I have over 25 years experience helping both individuals and couples succeed in love.  Learning how to manage conflict in your relationship will deepen your connection and strengthen your bond.  The remedy for the dumb fights is to learn how to "Fight Smart!" 

My "Fight Smart" model that will help you

• regulate highly charged emotions,
• resist destructive urges,
• reveal your deepest needs,
• re-synch with compassion,
• repair broken trusts, and
• reset the relationship in order to move forward.

Think of me as the "Dumb Fight Specialist."  Don't waste time feeling lost or stuck.  I will give you the knowledge and the tools  to get your relationship back on track.